In this world, there are always people you don't like, and there are always people who don't like you. This is normal. And no matter how good you are, or how good the other person is, you cannot demand each other's liking. Because being good is one thing, and liking or not liking is another.
Deliberately trying to please others will only damage your own dignity. Don't bow down countless times just to get a indifferent response. What you gain from lowering yourself is the other person's condescension and dominance. Without equality, there is no fairness.
Also, don't categorize people as good or bad based on whether you like them or not. Looking at others with biased emotions will inevitably lead to narrow-mindedness. You can't call a biting dog a bad dog. Dogs are always going to bite, it's their nature. In other words, while focusing on others, you should also see your own flaws and shortcomings.
Of course, extreme liking is more like a reunion between yourself and another self in the passage of time. Willing to bloom unreasonably for each other, and willing to devote oneself unconditionally, that is extreme liking. At this time, if you only talk about temperament, interests, and compatibility, that is shallow liking; the deepest liking is love, it is the attachment and attraction within life, it is the persistence and deep affection in the depths of the soul.
This is a mysterious and grand process of personalization. Personalization means that even if it is extremely wrong, it is infinitely correct. Sometimes, your countless glances may not see someone passing by; sometimes, even if you show an angelic heart, you may not receive angelic treatment. If the other person doesn't like you, they won't bother pretending to be an angel for you. No one needs to put on a show. Although temporary insincerity can soothe and intoxicate people, it will eventually leave behind the pain of evasion and the injury of perfunctoriness.
Therefore, the most foolish thing in this world is to go to someone who doesn't like you and ask why. If someone doesn't like you, they just don't. It's like a gust of wind passing by, and what you need to do is brush off the dust and calmly walk away. Then, forget about the person who doesn't like you.
Living in this world, a person should live for those who like them, that is the best attitude. Don't lose your happiness to someone who doesn't like you, and then forget about happiness with someone who likes you.
Don't chase after things that can't be forced. When you are tired from pursuing them, perhaps the other person is also tired. When you stop and let go, you will eventually realize that the sky won't fall, and the world will always be filled with blessings for everyone.
Everyone is struggling in the mire of the world. Some people are born to love you, while others are destined to teach you lessons. What you work hard for may not be appreciated by the other person; what you hate to the bone may be something the other person is used to. Between liking and not liking, it's either a deadlock or a struggle. However, this is life, there is warmth that touches your heart, and there is coldness that pierces your bones. It's just a way to make your life richer and more complete.
In the vastness of life, there will always be one or several clouds surrounding you. Instead of struggling with those who don't like you or whom you don't like, it's better to take a joyful walk under these clouds.